What I Wish I Knew Before Approaching An Asian Single Woman?

I believe that many guys who dream about dating Asian women have all sorts of ideas in their heads. But many of them are based on stereotypes and, I won’t lie, I was the same. Some of the things I thought turned out to be true but the majority were off-base. Actually, modern Asian women are way more interesting than any stereotype would have led you to believe.

☑️ What I recommend for dating a Asian woman online

If you want to meet Asian ladies for any type of relationship, you are exactly where you should be. I’ve gathered all the things I wish I had known before jumping into dating Asian girls.

My recommendations for online dating in Asia

As the online dating market in Asia is expected to grow to over 200M users by 2029, it’s a crime to miss out on trying a good Asian dating website. But keep in mind that not every service is good! Also, your approach to dating should be different than in the US. Follow a few tips that might help:

• Try several options. Check out mono-national sites and pick the best Asian dating site with a good reputation and positive user reviews.
• Create a profile that will attract Asian women. Being overly sexual will mainly drive Asian singles away. Keep things cleaner, and concentrate on being cute but sexy in your profile photos. 
• Make your profile informative and share your zodiac sign. You’ll be able to find a foreign woman from Asia faster with your zodiac sign, as many are crazy (in a good way!) on star compatibility.
• Approach women daily. To meet Asian women faster, be active, and message girls you like daily. Also, many singles will message you first! It’s a norm in Asia, so don’t hesitate to reply. But I beg you, don’t use generic pickup lines, as it’s become as something of a joke among beautiful Asian women. Think of something creative.

Online dating is a comfortable and effective way to meet people. But note that if you use a bad site, you won’t have a good experience.

How to meet Asian women without apps?

If you feel that online dating is not your option to meet Asian girls, there are plenty of old-fashioned IRL options for you. See where to look for Asian singles offline below:

Also, as there are almost 20M people identifying as Asian just in 2020 in the US, your chances of meeting a beautiful Asian girl in your state are also quite high. The top 5 lucky spots are California, New York, Texas, New Jersey, and Washington. Give Asian neighborhoods and cultural places a try to meet more Asian singles.

Why Asian women are way more than what you see on TV

If you look at how Asian girls are portrayed in Hollywood movies, you’ll come across quiet, submissive women who all want to date American men. But the truth is that not all Asian ladies are the same, and their personalities vary depending on the particular country they are in. Let’s debunk some popular myths together!

• Myth I: All Asian women are super traditional and want to be housewives.

Truth: When dating Asian girls, you’ll notice that they are more traditional in terms of gender roles, but many modern beauties are independent, well-educated, and strive to build successful careers.

• Myth II: Asian singles are shy and submissive.

Truth: Keeping a distance in communication and avoiding unnecessary PDA in public is a cultural norm, but many Asian girls have friendly and bubbly personalities who will always speak up when they feel it is right.

• Myth III: Asian women don’t date Black men.

Truth: Though Caucasian guys are often more popular among Asian singles, there are still many who are open to starting a relationship with a partner who is Black or mixed. Those women are mainly looking for love, and race is not a deciding factor.

If you really want to date Asian women, I’d recommend you forget all the stereotypes you know. Don’t treat your potential partner as just an Asian, get to know what a specific person is about.

Cultural shocks you’ll face when dating an Asian girl

Asian culture is in many ways different from Western ones. It isn’t worse or better, just different. And here are some things that raised my eyebrows:

I can’t say that there are things that are very shocking, as most modern singles are becoming more similar due to all the Western influences. Yet, it’s important to learn more about the Asian culture to understand your girlfriend better.

My poll results: Are Asian singles interested in American men?

There are many Asian women seeking American men online so it’s easy to jump to conclusions. But let’s check the stats:

• Over 8,000 brides from Asia came to the US to marry just in 2023. The top 3 countries that are the most popular among US men are the Philippines, Vietnam, and Thailand.
• While Asian men prefer to date Asian or Black women, 40% of Asian ladies say that they don’t want to date an Asian. Instead, the majority prefer White guys. Also, many choose Black and Latino men.
• According to Pew Research, the most popular origin groups among Asian Americans are Chinese, Indian, and Filipino, which is also an indicator of what nationalities match best with the American mentality.

The numbers are definitely in your favor. So what’s stopping you from sliding into the DMs of single Asian ladies?

How much does it cost to travel to an Asian girlfriend?

When you are looking for a single Asian female, you don’t immediately think about budgeting your international dates. But you should. Traveling to Asia is long and also not very cheap.

Let’s make an estimate if you choose to date one of the single Japanese women. Here are the expenses to plan:

So, expect to spend around $3,140 for a 2-week trip. But a lot depends on your spending habits.

You’ll match with an Asian woman if you’re into…

• Spicy food. If you can handle some good spice, Asian women looking for men will be pleasantly shocked, as they believe that only Asians can.
• Anime, Asian fashion, manga, Asian art, or K-dramas. You’ll have a lot of topics for conversation with Asian women.
• Self-improvement and intellectual growth. You should find Asian women, as many believe that being smart is sexy.
• Horoscopes, signs, and all that jazz. You’ll find so much in common with Asian singles.

PS. Also, if you are tall (5.10+), you have a high chance because local girls are into tall guys, (they are quite rare in Asia!)

Conclusion

It’s easier to find Asian girls than you think, but you’ll still need to put in some effort. Be ready to be patient and grow together because being with an Asian woman is totally worth it! Pick a good dating site, stop dreaming, and make your fantasy your reality.

Brian Whelan

Brian Whelan is a talented journalist and international dating expert with an impressive career spanning over a decade.